I am # 8 in a family of 10 children. 5 girls and 5 boys. I am also the oldest one of the youngest 3. Making me an eldest/middle child. lol I guess the shrinks would say that explains my attention getting-bossiness. We have lost 4 siblings. I have 1 son, who has 3 girls (8 & 11 by his first wife) and 4 yr old Zoey, by his wife Jen. Ron is my 2nd spouse we've been together 20 yrs in Aug. He has 2 boys and a daughter, several grandchildren, although we only have contact with the girls children. They range in ages from 20.0-9. 2 girls and the youngest is the only boy.