I remember my grandmother making this when I was a kid. When my daughter complained that she didn't like (ready-to-eat) chocolate pudding she had at my mom's house, I told her about her great-grandmother's (on my dad's side) recipe. I dug it out of the envelopes stuffed with clippings and scraps of paper that served as my grandmother's recipe box, and we made it that night. I don't know why I never made it when the kids were little! It's so easy a 10-yr old did it by herself! It's now become a favorite (though we don't often eat dessert).
1Sift or whisk dry ingredients together and put in small saucepan.
2Gradually stir in milk (off the heat).
3Cook, stirring often, on medium heat until thick and bubbly.
4Remove from heat and stir in vanilla and a pat of butter.
5Pour into bowls and allow to cool until skin forms, then top with vanilla ice cream. This is how my grandmother always served it, and my kids prefer it warm, but it can also be poured into small containers and chilled in the fridge for school lunches.