lazy days oatmeal cake

Ingredients

• - 1 1/4 cups boiling water
• - 1 cup oatmeal-regaular
• - 1/2 cup butter,softened
• - 1 cup -regular sugar or splenda
• - 1 cup brown sugar
• - 1 tsp. vanilla extract
• - 2 large eggs
• - 1 1/2 cups self-rising flour
• - 1/4 tsp.cinnamon
• - 1/4 tsp.nutmeg
• - ( topping )
• - 1/4 cup butter, melted
• - 1/2 cup brown sugar
• - 3 tbsp. half -n- half
• - 1/3 cup chopped pecans
• - 3/4 cups grated coconut