1Heat oven to 350 . Spray 3-9" round cake pans w/ cooking spray. In lg bowl, stir together cake mix and gelatin mix. make a well in center of mix. Pour into well, the mashed berries, oil, milk, and eggs. Beat on low until blended. Beat on medium for 4 mins.
2Fold in 1 cup coconut and 1/2 cup pecans. Divide batter evenly among pans. Bake 25-30 mins, or until a toothpick inserted in center comes out clean.
Let cool while making frosting.
3In bowl, mash remaining berries, drain of any liquid. In another bowl, beat cream cheese and butter until smooth. Beat in powdered sugar and mashed strawberries. Fold in 1/2 cup coconut and remaining pecans. Frost cooled cake layers. Chill, covered for 4 hrs.