Combine all ingredients, adding milk last, and just until it is spreadable to your liking. (at least 3 Tablespoons of milk, more if you like it thinner)Mix very well (this is where the Kitchen Aide comes in handy. You want it very blended and smooth.)
Place in a 1 1/2 quart baking dish and bake at 350 degrees for 20-30 minutes. Serve with crackers and breads.