Pour 2 cups of boiling water into heat safe bowl, Add grape gelatin. Whisk until disolved. Stir in 2 cups of rum. Divide mixture into 2 bowls. To one add 6 tbsps of coconut milk/vanilla yogurt. Add a little pearl dust to the ransparent one. Set both aside.
Pour 1 cup of boiling water into heat safe bowl, Add berry blue gelatin. Which until disovled, add 1 cup rum. Divide into 2 bowls add 3 tbsps coconut milk into one bowl. Add pearl dust into transparent mixture, Set both aside.
Pour one cup hot water into bowl, add plain gelatin. Put sweetened condensed milk remaining rum and pink food color into bowl. Mix until blended.
Begin layering jello, Pink first. Pour 1 1/2 teaspoons at a time. Let set for 20 minutes in frige. Each layer decreasing set time.
Repeat step 5, Layering with purple, purple opaque, blue, blue opaque, purple, purple opaqueand finally another pink.