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Experienced in Heart Broken year after year
Experiences in wearing Rose Colored Glasses
Experienced in being Naively " sucked in "
Experienced in letting people take Advantage of me
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Oct 27, 2017
You may say to yourself that you have family and friends to support you and help you when you need the help. This may be true, but it does not change the fact that when push comes to shove and the end is nigh, you are alone — completely. As the saying goes: you come into this world alone and you depart from it alone.
Once you accept this statement, the sooner you can begin to rely on yourself for all it is that you need from life. Family and friends are very important in our lives, and if we are lucky enough they love us. If you said that your friends would be there for you if you called on them, I’d believe you. If you said that your friends will always be there for you 100% of the time sacrificing anything for you, I’d have to ask you if you were serious.
There comes a time when your friends will let you down. No matter how close your bonds are; they are bound to let you down at least once during the duration of your friendship. You have to keep in mind that they have lives of their own. You may be besties at the moment and may remain so for a long time. However, one of you is likely to get married, start a family and drift away. Even if you do keep in touch, you will no longer be as important to them as their wife and kids — as it should be.
The reason why human beings are unreliable is because we are egocentric creatures; In our world, we are the center of it. Everything we know and experience involves our existence. Our mental properties are focused on us and always put us ahead of others. This is not to say that you cannot put someone else ahead of yourself — but in order to do so, you will have to be focused and do so with strong intent.
If things are important then we can easily put someone’s well being ahead of our own. However, if we don’t give the particular event importance (even if it holds importance for the other person) then we are unlikely to focus on that other person, but rather hone in on our own wants and needs instead.
We are built to survive on our own, yet we could not stay sane if isolated indefinitely; we both need and don’t need other people. Nevertheless, one ought to learn how to rely on oneself and not on friends and family. There will come a time when they let you down or are no longer there to lend you support.
Learning to stand on your own two feet all the time will make it easier to stand alone when there is no one there to help you. It could mean a matter of life or death, if not of your body then of your sanity. This is not to say that we shouldn’t ever ask for help; we should ask as often as possible. However, we must be ready to take on any burden ourselves if that is the only possible solution.
Oct 27, 2017
I've never given it a thought, well, yes I have, but not sincerely enough to cause pain.....
But I am at that point now that I can really feel scared for me and my actions of the next few days.....
I have returned home to Utah because my once called Fiancee couldn't accept me for me.... and no I'm not throwing a pity party.... just tired of life.....
I'm tired of people who say one thing and mean another....
I'm tired of waking up and being unable to see the Sunshine through the clouds....
Is there anyone who would be willing to share with me some Sunshine ?
Okay so it ended up being a pity party, but I'm going to be a " Butter cup " and " suck it up " and try to find a " Silver lining " once again...
Love You all
Oct 1, 2017
May 13, 2017
May God Bless You All
Fireman Bob :)
Feb 26, 2017
First Mom with 4 strokes, then came my stroke just before Christmas and now another stroke has struck my Brother Peter. .. He is in the hospital since yesterday morning, with more tests in the morning. ..
May I Humbly ask for Prayers for Peter Cooney. ..
Thank You ALL in advance. ..
May God Bless You All. ...
Jan 3, 2017
Dec 30, 2016
May your Kitchens continue to bring You Joy and many New recipes as we all March into the new year. ...
I look to the future with many new adventures planned in my life. ...
May God Bless You All. .....
Dec 25, 2016