In a small blender, add Ranch dip mix, 16 oz sour cream, chopped cilantro and fresh jalapeno - no seeds. I put in a blender just long enough to mix (I like little pieces of jalapeno. Add a splash of water or cream if needed to thin out in order to mix better. Gradually add chopped jalapeno depending on spice -add jalapeno seeds if you want it really spicy. It will get spicier as it sits. Eat with fresh veggies, chips, or crackers.