"Thanks for your time"....

Phyllis Lively Recipe

By Phyllis Lively PhyllisBaker


A beautiful story to share with you!
A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door.

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A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door.

Over the phone, his mother told him, "Mr. Belser died last night. The funeral is Wednesday."

Memories flashed through his mind like an old newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days.

"Jack, did you hear me?"

"Oh, sorry, Mom. Yes, I heard you. It's been so long since I thought of him. I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago," Jack said.

"Well, he didn't forget you. Every time I saw him he'd ask how you were doing. He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence' as he put it," Mom told him.

"I loved that old house he lived in," Jack said.

"You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life," she said.

"He's the one who taught me carpentry," he said. "I wouldn't be in this business if it weren't for him. He spent a lot of time teaching me things he thought were important. Mom, I'll be there for the funeral," Jack said.

As busy as he was, he kept his word. Jack caught the next flight to his hometown. Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.

The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to see the old house next door one more time. Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment. It was like crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time The house was exactly as he remembered. Every step held memories. Every picture, every piece of furniture...Jack stopped suddenly...

"What's wrong, Jack?" his Mom asked.

"The box is gone," he said

"What box?" Mom asked.

"There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside. All he'd ever tell me was 'the thing I value most,'" Jack said.
It was gone. Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box. He figured someone from the Belser family had taken it.

"Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him," Jack said. "I better get some sleep. I have an early flight home, Mom."

It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died. Returning home from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. "Signature required on a package. No one at home. Please stop by the main post office within the next three days," the note read.

Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago. The handwriting was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention. "Mr. Harold Belser" it read. Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package. There inside was the gold box and an envelope. Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside.

"Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack Bennett. It's the thing I valued most in my life." A small key was taped to the letter. His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack carefully unlocked the box. There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch.

Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover. Inside he found these words engraved: "Jack, Thanks for your time! - Harold Belser."
"The thing he valued most was my time!"

Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and cleared his appointments for the next two days.

"Why?" Janet, his assistant asked.

"I need some time to spend with my son," he said. "Oh, by the way, Janet, thanks for your time!"

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away."
Think about this. You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.

1. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.

2. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.

3. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.

4. You mean the world to someone.

5. If not for you, someone may not be living.

6. You are special and unique.

7. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you trust God to do what's best, and wait on His time, sooner or later, you will get it or something better.

8. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good can still come from it.

9. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.

10. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.

11. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.

12. Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know and you'll both be happy.

13. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.

To everyone:

"Thanks for your time."

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Kim Biegacki pistachyoo
Apr 6, 2012
I tried this recipe and say it's Family Tested & Approved!
Kim Biegacki pistachyoo
Apr 6, 2012
Phyllis, your not supposed to make me cry...what a beautiful story! It is so true that some people their love language is "time". They value nothing more than your time. I read a wonderful book some time ago before I got married, I think it is called The 5 Love Languages and it talks about how different ways people show their love. It helped me to better love my parents, friends and other family members. My step-dad John is an "acts of service" kind of person. He doesn't say "I love you" or hug you much but he will cook your favorite meal or while your visiting he may wash your car for you. I was so excited to learn that not everyone shows love the same way and yes....for some their love language is "time"...my mother is much like that. She just loves if I come and sit with her and watch a movie, or go have lunch with her. Thank you for the reminder Phyllis with sharing such a valuable story. Thank you for thinking of us and taking your "time" to share. May you have a blessed Easter weekend with family and friends. xoxoxox
Straws Kitchen CinCooks
Apr 6, 2012
Hey Ms Texas, I have read this before, but be assured, it is well worth reading again!!!
Doe Smith Doe1
Apr 6, 2012
As my Mom got on in years, I soooo tired of hearing the same story about whatever for probably the 100th time. Hubby and I were owner operators of our business, we were always behind on something, always too little day & too much of a list of things that had to be done"yesterday.". He always had time to sit & listen to my Mom. They became the best of friends. The one thing I always made sure of, despite our arguments, ( Mom & I). I always said to her, but remember I may not be happy with you right now, But no one loves you more than me. I've used that in my marrriage of 21 years. Chris can be so exasperating, but the last thing he hears from me on his way to work, is I Love you. This again sleepless night, I'm thankful for that. As he probably has less than 2 years left, he has liver cancer. We have done a lot of talking & crying, these last 2 days. he said something that gave me comfort,he held my hand and told me, I've never been loved so much, by someone in my life as you love me. I've never doubted about being loved by you.Miracles happen evey day. Maybe one will happen for his health. But, I am glad through all these years, I never failed to say I Love you. He's very, very English, not one to demonstrate affextion, or be cuddly. But, he will make dinner, or bring home my favorite chocolate bar, or fix something, without my nagging for the umpteenth time. I've accepted that, & know that's his way of saying I love you.
Kim, I'm going to search for that book.Phylis thanks for sharing. May you all have a Blessed Easter, let's do that by honoring Phyllis's sharing this story. Tell someone today, you love them!!!
Hugs, Doe
Phyllis Lively PhyllisBaker
Apr 6, 2012
Ladies, you have touched my heart with your beautiful words and sharing a heartfelt piece of your own life & personal story what this "time story" means to you. That in it of itself makes my heart go pitter-patter and my eyes leak too. I, too, am losing one of my dearest friends to cancer and I give her several hours a day of my time because I truly try to be another Mr. Belser and Jack.... time is so precious to me to give away to those I love and care about ~ we all have the same 24 hours in a day ~ and we all have a new supply of time the very next day. One never knows when God will choose to take away that time on earth as we know it.

Easter Blessings to you and yours!
He is Risen! The resurrection is the beautiful fulfillment of Christ's promise.... evidence of His eternal love... and the assurance of life everlasting. May God Bless You all.
Kim Biegacki pistachyoo
Apr 6, 2012
Now we all have "leaky" eyes. :-)
Barbara Birban nabrib
Apr 6, 2012
thank you so much for sharing this, it has opened up my heart.
Genny Miller gendee
Apr 6, 2012
Thanks for sharing, Yellow Rose! This is beautiful. Were's the dang Kleenex?
Shelia Senghas earthbaker
Apr 6, 2012
Thanks for sharing your heartfelt story Phyllis...Happy Easter to all!
Phyllis Lively PhyllisBaker
Apr 6, 2012
Ya'll....... I know - right.
I couldn't know about this story and not share it. I'll have another one soon - the one about The Wooden Bowl. I'm warning you, have a box of kleenex near your computer... you never know when Phyllis will post a tear-jerker. I'm the most sentimental person I know :) Good Evening to everybody.... (((hugs))) Angels watching over you!
Laura Darragh Laulee
Jul 11, 2012
What a beautiful story..It's so nice to share a story that touches so many people, that can bring tears to one's eyes..You sure did that for me..To love someone that will love you back is the greatest thing in this world..God Bless you all..Thank You
Pat Duran kitchenchatter
Aug 15, 2012
Thank you Phyllis to love someone that will love you back is beautiful - but to love someone that does not show love back is very difficult- but eventually they will come around- so don't give up. God works in mysterious ways!!
Catie B CatieBBaker
Oct 1, 2013
I saw the link today on another page. Someone posted it to share with a group. A good day for it. I remember reading this a long time ago and never forgot the basic tenets although I have not seen a copy since the original I read. I will have to print it. Today I found out my brother in law, who has had HepC for 15 years... (lasted years beyond what anyone thought. He refused a transplant and never went on all those drugs...) He now has Primary Liver Cancer, with an 8 cm. tumor. No one knows how long he has, but if anyone can squeeze time out of life, it is him. Two years ago , a young man crossed the center line on the highway and hit him head on as the young man was texting. He had a long road back, and went on to get his health back, such as it is. My sister never worked, no kids, so she is, and has been his primary caretaker. They had been barely getting by on his SDI, but now has a settlement from the accident. It seemed so awful at the time, one wondered, Why put him through all that. He now won't have to worry about my sister. She is set.
They did expect something like this would eventually come. They have two lousy options, none of which will cure him, and or give him quality of life. Having worked in oncology for the last few years before medical dis., I can only respect his wish not to go through a lot of agonizing treatment for a few more months of life that would put him through H377...… but time is now an even more precious commodity than it has been. He is going to enjoy whatever time he has left.
Thanks for posting this....And who ever shared it today in the group.