Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C). Lightly grease a 9x13-inch baking dish.
Place the milk in a shallow dish. Soak the croutons in the milk. Don't get to mushy. Set the milk aside. Add the croutons to the beef & onions. Stir in the raisins, apricot jam, chutney, curry powder, turmeric, eggs, salt, and black pepper. Pour the mixture into the prepared baking dish.
Bake in the preheated oven 1 hour.
While the bobotie bakes, whisk together the reserved milk, egg, and a pinch of salt. Pour over top of the dish. Lay the bay leaf onto the top of the milk mixture.
Return the bobotie to the oven until the top is golden brown, 15 to 30 minutes. Remove bay leaf before serving.